What our seminar offers
Death and grief in action
- Processing of operations resulting in death
- Support for fire brigades, rescue services and other emergency services
- Dealing with your own emotional burden
- Understanding of grief processes and psychological reactions
Communication & dealing with those affected
- Conversation with relatives and participants
- Sensitive handling in stressful situations
- Empathetic and clear communication in use
Psychological strength and self‒protection
- Psychosocial Emergency Care (PEC)
- Coping strategies for traumatic experiences
- Strengthening resilience and mental health
- Dealing with depression and possible suicide risks
Practical Exercises & Role Plays
- Simulation of typical operational situations
- Confidence in action through practical exercises
- Strategies for dealing with stress and decision pressure
Legal & procedure for deaths
- Cooperation with police, fire brigade and funeral home
- Tasks of the undertaker in the operational process
- Legal basis for non-natural deaths
- Important steps in dealing with the deceased
Storytelling & Exchange
- Personal experience from fire and funerals
- Case studies from everyday work
- Space for questions, exchange and reflection
Who are we?
More than 70 Years of experience
We are Tim Messner and Dominik Kloppe – firefighters, international speakers, and experts in mental health and the professional handling of stressful operational situations.
Together, we have over 40 years of experience in fire and rescue services and over 30 years of expertise in funeral services. This unique combination allows us to offer a practical yet profound perspective on the challenges emergency responders face daily – especially those burdens that are still too rarely discussed in everyday operations.
Our work is dedicated to the people who are there for others in exceptional situations and often reach their own limits. With our seminar "Strong in Action," internationally known as "Before the Breaking Point," we raise awareness for mental health, impart sound knowledge, and provide emergency responders with concrete, everyday tools. Our goal is to recognize burdens early, address them openly, and effectively counteract them – before the personal breaking point is reached.
With our guides "Fatal Incidents," "When the Mission Comes Home," and "Mentally Strong in Action," we delve into central themes surrounding psychological stress, difficult operational experiences, and their effects on personal and family life. We break taboos, provide orientation, and show ways for emergency responders to remain mentally healthy and capable in the long term.
Our expertise is now in international demand: As speakers and workshop leaders, we have worked for the Miami‒Dade Fire Rescue Department in Miami and various Fire Departments in Canada, among others. The exchange across national borders consistently shows us: structures and operational conditions may differ – but the challenges for the person behind the uniform are the same everywhere.
Mental strength promote where it is most needed
We not only pass on experiences ‒ we convey concrete strategies and tools for the professional and humane handling of loss, grief and stressful assignments. In our seminars, we talk openly about difficult topics such as the processing of traumatic events and create space for exchange, reflection and mutual support. Our goal: to promote mental strength where it is most needed.
Our Team
Tim Messner
Founder and international speaker
Tim has been an active member of the fire department for over 30 years since childhood and has completed all training courses up to fire chief. He is the managing director of a funeral home with over 20 years of professional experience.
Carlie Pauls
Director of North American Relations & Operations
Carlie has transformed her own challenges into strengths. Today, she helps the team provide practical tools for mental health and new perspectives to first responders worldwide.
Dominik Kloppe
Founder and international speaker
Dominik worked as a lifeguard from childhood until young adulthood and then joined the fire department as a career changer. He works at Tim's funeral home and has over 10 years of professional experience.
The references of our participants
Raied S. Jadallah
Fire Chief Miami Dade Fire Rescue
Miami-Dade Fire Rescue – Office of the Fire Chief
Official Letter of Appreciation from Fire Chief Raied S. Jadallah
Miami-Dade Fire Rescue · July 15, 2026
On behalf of Miami-Dade Fire Rescue, I want to extend my sincere appreciation for your participation in our 2026 Mindset Matters event and for presenting “Before the Breaking Point: A European Perspective on Mental Health.” Your instruction delivered a powerful, thoughtful, and deeply relevant message for our personnel.
Your willingness to share real operational experiences, including the tragic loss of a fellow firefighter during the Worms explosion, brought an emotional authenticity that resonated strongly with our members. The way you connected these difficult moments to the importance of understanding the mind under pressure added tremendous value to the session.
The SAFE-System framework you introduced—Stop, Analyze, Focus, Energy—provided our personnel with a clear and actionable method to maintain composure during high-stress operations. Your emphasis on intentional breathing, self-assessment, mental anchoring, and purposeful action offered tools that our first responders can immediately apply on scene.
Thank you for sharing your extensive experience from both firefighting and the funeral industry, and for demonstrating such commitment to early mental health intervention within the fire service. We are grateful for the international collaboration and the valuable perspective you brought to our organization.
Martin Assmuth
Mayor - Municipality of Hofstetten
With their heartfelt project “Broject for Life,” focusing on mental strength for firefighters and emergency responders, the two of them support emergency and rescue personnel with knowledge from practice, for practice.
In particular, their explanation of how to deal with death and challenging situations at the scene of an emergency really impressed me. Both firefighters are also regularly confronted with death through their many years of professional work as funeral directors and shared their own experiences from difficult situations within the fire service.
I can fully recommend their work to all colleagues and organizations. The 3.5 hours were time very well spent.
Thomas Schneider
Mayor - Municipality of Fischerbach
Dear Tim, dear Dominik, I recently had the opportunity to attend a training evening with the volunteer fire brigade in Fischerbach. Unlike other training sessions, which usually focus on technology, this one was about the firefighters themselves: how can we deal with the psychological stresses we experience during operations? Thanks to your many years of special experience as rescue workers and undertakers, and your large network, you were able to provide us with ways and methods to process these experiences. Despite the seriousness of the topic, you presented your comprehensive information vividly in an entertaining and engaging manner. The three hours flew by and left a lasting impression. I would like to thank you very much for your commitment. It helps ensure that rescuers do not become victims themselves due to what they experience in rescue operations.
Markus Schwarze
Fire Chef - Fire Department Fischerbach
Tim and Dominik,
I would like to sincerely thank both of you once again for the very emotional and professionally valuable seminar you gave for us on Friday, January 30, 2026.
I have rarely experienced my team being so quiet, attentive, and interested during a training evening. Great respect for how the two of you managed to inspire the entire team — including myself — with such serious and important topics.
The feedback from all participants was very positive, and they all said it was excellent.
I believe Broject for Life is extremely valuable and can highly recommend it to all organizations, whether fire departments (volunteer or professional), emergency medical services, THW, police, or the healthcare sector.
Class 3b
Academy for Nursing Professionals
Warm greetings from Class 3b 😂
Thank you again for your great presentation today.
We will all take a lot away from it and will remember you very fondly.
All the best to you 🍀
Yannik S.
Fire Lieutenant (Volunteer Fire Department)
Hello Tim, hello Dominik,
I wanted to give you some feedback on your presentation last week with our department.
I thought your talk was very good, and I believe most people were able to take something away from it, including on a personal level.
I personally recognized myself in several situations, and I found your openness, especially when sharing personal stories, very impressive.
Fire departments that do not yet live this topic the way we do will be able to gain tremendous value from your seminar.
Please keep going and continue to carry this message forward.
In closing, simply a big thank you.
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